my today’s mistake is .

• I expected from a child of 11 years to understand my anger and narazgi from him due to the unheard request / command / point about his casuality about task and chores
• I quarrel with person who wanted to becoming bridge asking the boy to talk. I felt anger as it was not the boy but the other person’s push which he tried to come and talk.But I felt the disconnection as we never talked to the point to solve and fix issues , he was just having general conversation which was pinching me harder.

moral is : no one understood anything instead environment became serious and sad and bp made me uneasy.